I think Wesley would be one of those dads who constantly plays games like "toss the baby" and "airplane ride" and crap like that, while R.J. would be the dad who goes out and teaches Jack about everything in the vicinity
I like the difference in parenting styles. I feel that's a good balance. Fun parent and teacher. I feel that's what parents should have because a parent is there to teach you the essentials, but you also need to enjoy being together.